Sunday, December 14, 2008

2 Moms, 4 Kids, 3,647.55 Miles

Emily, Madeleine and Andrew, along with their moms and Baby John (in carrier Erin is wearing), just before departing Norfolk.

To the first person who graciously points out the continental US is approximately 3,000 miles (not 3,600); thank you, I know. However, when one goes from Norfolk to Las Vegas and then to Spokane, the miles add up as one is not traveling in a straight line.

This year's annual Christmas pilgrimage to Spokane involved a new twist. We had the opportunity to travel with another family. Erin is another Spokane native, now living in Richmond, returning for Christmas. She and Uncle Paul were in the same class in school and her younger brother is good friends with Uncle Kyle. Consequently our families have known each other for years and years. She also has two small children and a husband who was unable to get away from work for an early Christmas departure. So, Melissa and Erin decided to play zone defense at 30,000 feet and make the trip together.

Considering the odds: a cross-country trip with two three-and-a-half year olds, one two-and-a-half year old and one three month old as well as carry-on consisting of two suitcases, two car seats, one stroller (gate checked), two heavy adult backpacks, three children's backpacks and one purse...the trip went remarkably well. We went through many, many stickers; made necklaces; colored in coloring books and snacked our way across the country. I think I can speak for Erin when I say we are both indebted to the person who invented fruit snacks as they are always popular and usually work as a bribe when a little one is in the process of losing it.

There were minimal meltdowns and Baby John slept the majority of the way (I am so jealous. I swear my ears are still ringing from when we flew from Seattle to Frankfurt with the girls when they were five months old). Erin and Melissa were able to help each other (each of us actually had the opportunity to use the restroom alone while the other one held down the fort) and more importantly look across the aisle and express mutual disbelief when it was announced there were "only three more hours" left on the first flight (it certainly felt like there should have been twenty minutes left - not three hours). I'm fairly suspicious the pilot had been circling Texas, Colorado or New Mexico just for kicks; he said something about having to go farther south of Denver because of weather - likely story.

When we changed planes I took the three "big kids" up the ramp and into the gate area while Erin waited for the stroller by the plane. Several people made comments about the cute triplets! (Please keep in mind Andrew is about 13 months younger than Madeleine and Emily, so I'm not too sure what people are thinking.) Later, when the "big kids" and I went on a short walk to look at planes while Erin guarded luggage (it was so nice to have someone who could stay with the luggage instead of dragging it up and down the terminal) I was again asked if the kids were triplets - talk about a glimpse into another world.

While people took one look at our row of six seats, two thirds of which were occupied by someone under four, and kept moving toward the back of the plane, we found many helpful strangers. People offered to grab and carry any number of things on or off the plane and for this we say thank you.

Monday, December 8, 2008

Harry And The Holidays

Emily (l) and Madeleine cleaning their shoes on Friday night. Daddy supervised to make sure the shoes would pass Nikolaus's inspection.

With Christmas around the corner Emily and Madeleine appear to be in a state of perpetual overdrive. "We" put up our tree and other decorations on Thanksgiving weekend, so now part of our daily routine is saying both good morning and good night to the tree as well as stopping to "use" the nutcrackers that are on the landing of the stairs.

The majority of our Christmas decorations were put up while the girls were napping (thankfully a long one). When they woke up and came downstairs they kept walking around "discovering" things and repeatedly saying "Oh my gosh!" It was also decided "We have the most beaubiful Chispis tee in de whole wolo." So, for anyone else who may put up a tree...good luck.

We have been singing lots of Christmas songs recently. I taught the girls Christmas Is A Coming and now Madeleine wanders around singing "Christmas is a coming and the geese are getting flat". The true lyric is the geese are getting fat, but her rendition leads to more imagery.

We had our Santa picture taken last Tuesday and were very excited to see him. In fact, we were more than willing to chat with him and felt we did not have enough time to do so.

This past weekend was non-stop entertainment. Nikolaus came on the night of December 5th for Nikolaustag. He brought the girls candy, of course, and some Santa themed clothing that seemed more appropriate earlier in the season than on Christmas day itself. Madeleine and Emily were very excited about Nikolaus's arrival and were quiet as soon as we left their bedroom at bedtime (shocking), however about 20 minutes later they were telling us, through the door, that we needed to go to bed too - they heard the TV in our room through the wall.

Saturday morning we checked out all of our Nikolaus goodies and then went to the annual Williamsburg Christmas Parade. We met McGruff The Crime Dog, got to see inside a police car before the parade started and were given candy canes and flags. The most nerve-wracking moment of the parade was at the very beginning when a model of an antique car, driven by a 10 year old (generous estimate), veered by... Our preschool had a "float" in the parade and Santa was in a fire truck at the very end!

Waiting for the parade to start! Emily on the left and Madeleine on the right.

Not to lack holiday spirit, but really! Should this child be driving any sort of vehicle where there are hundreds of people, many of them small children, sitting on the street?

Our school's "float" in the parade.


EmilyMadeleine (with the remnants of a candy cane - watching Santa approach!)

Madeleine (l) and Emily in their "fancy dresses" Oma and Opa sent from Germany. The girls were on their way to church - the bear and snowman stayed home.

Sunday afternoon we got to meet Harry. Harry is a bunny who was recently adopted by our loyal (and extremely brave) babysitter, Erica. He is six years old and we were thrilled to meet him. We found out Harry likes to eat oats and raisins as treats and both girls got to feed him. We left Erica's apartment convinced we too need a bunny.


Harry.Emily, Harry and Erica.

Harry eating oats out of Madeleine's hand.

Sunday evening we went to a Grand Illumination Party (Some sort of holiday thing for Williamsburg. We have never been, but did get stuck in the horrendous traffic caused by it for about 20 minutes.) hosted by one of the professors in the Econ dept. Emily and Madeleine were very excited to go because the event was co-hosted by the professor's stepdaughter, Meghan, and we got to see a "big girl's bedroom".

Ready for the Grand Illumination Party. Madeleine in red and Emily in green.

In closing, this morning I started the day with Emily needing to use the facilities. After I got her situated, Madeleine came in and asked "Mommy, you want to see something really cool?" I followed her to their room where she pulled back the curtain, pointed at the sunrise and proclaimed "Look!"