Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Eu de Summer

Emily, assisted by Uncle Kyle, walking on stilts.

Madeleine's turn on stilts.

Emily (standing) and Madeleine (kneeling) planting seeds with Aunt Chessy.

After having been in Spokane (and at the lake) for about three weeks, we officially look and smell as if summer is upon us. In addition to Emily and Madeleine having sun-kissed cheeks, they also smell like sunblock most of the time; it invariably gets in their hair every afternoon and they spend 90% of the time looking as if their mother doesn't know how to bathe them. In fact there is a daily bath and periodic shampoo, but the next day's application of sunblock somehow negates the appearance of cleanliness. A vicious cycle really. My sweatshirt smells of the mosquito repellent I sprayed on it a week and half ago (yes I have washed it) and sand is everywhere.

Our first Saturday in Spokane we went to Uncle Kyle and Aunt Chessy's house for the afternoon. We brought our sunflower plants from Williamsburg and were able to plant them in the garden. (One of this spring's "Later Gators" was a gardening club. The girls joined. I thought, as did other mothers, the garden would be planted at school. Nope! The first week I was presented with two plastic cups each containing a sunflower seed. A gardener I am not and we are away for the summer....so I stuck the cups, now with gangly plants in the back row cupholders of the van and drove them across the country to their foster home.)

We watered (drowned) every other plant in sight, had our first stilts lesson and got to play with Uncle Kyle's Nerf gun, which we can now load and fire all on our own. Aunt Chessy showed us her "dumpster babies", plants she has rescued from the dumpster at work, and let us sprinkle the seeds for various vegetables. She suggested Madeleine and Emily could come back, pick the vegetables and eat a salad made out of them. The next day Emily suggested she and Madeleine can pick the vegetables and I can eat the salad.

We headed to the lake the following Monday and have basically been there since. "The lake" is really Coeur D Alene Lake, but the girls insist on calling it "Idaho Lake". At least they have the state right, I'm not rocking the boat. There are the annual pictures of swimming and driving the boat, but I haven't downloaded them yet, you'll have make do.

The swimming makes me shudder. The water is cold! Which is basically what you would expect early in the summer and after a rather cold and wet spring. However, Madeleine and Emily go charging in and hang-out until they are dragged, blue-lipped, from the water and promptly put in a warm bathtub. I remember being a kid and swimming, about the same time of year, much to the amusement/amazement of my grandparents...now, a "few" years later, I am on the side of my grandparents (a.k.a. the side of common sense) and can't believe people voluntarily hop in the water at this point in the season. More to the point, I hope I don't have to go in on a rescue mission and pluck one, or both, of the girls out.

Madeleine and Emily (back to the camera) playing Picture Tri-Ominos with Uncle Paul at the lake.

Madeleine, Emily watching Uncle Kyle skip rocks at the lake. The realization rocks can "skip" was met with utter amazement.

We have gone to Coeur D Alene twice to partake in the Regal Family Film Festival. The folks of northern Idaho seem to take this a bit more seriously than those of Williamsburg. In Williamsburg, everyone blatantly carries in snacks and sippy cups abound. In Coeur D Alene they actually dim the lights all the way!

Emily and Madeleine are not at all fans of fireworks. It is felt they make too much noise (the same feeling holds for when blanks are fired from the cannon at Jamestown at home). However, today we screwed up our courage and bought six hens and a few ground flowers.

The girls watched the first ground flower from the kitchen window and came outside, impressed by their own bravery, to watch the second. Both hens, however, merited staying in the safety of the kitchen and watching through the window. We will save what is left for the pyro-expertise of the girls' uncles on Sunday.

Lest you think the only fireworks are those purchased at the fireworks stand...Emily and Madeleine enjoy playing in mud. I'm fine with this as long as they wear their old shoes and preferably clothing that is on the verge of being outgrown (and too ratty to be sold at the consignment store). One evening the girls were playing with mud and dirt. They were on the back side of the house with the planter boxes and gravel driveway (dirt galore). Mom and I were sitting on the deck on the opposite side of the house. There had been a few minor skirmishes, but nothing of note. Then the howling began. The type of howling that indicates someone is genuinely hurt and, more importantly, ticked off. I rounded the corner to find Emily clutching her back and claiming "Madeleine hit me with the shovel, the metal part!" As there was a small mark on Emily's back, the story was easily verified. However, the "shovel" is in fact a small gardening trowel. Madeleine was assertively marched into the house and placed at the top of the staircase for the longest time-out to date. Emily was consoled on the deck. While in time-out Madeleine proceeded to wail and sob to the point she gave herself a headache. During our end-of-time-out chat, a scowling puffy-eyed Madeleine expressed her outrage that "Emily took my dirt." I sympathized with the snatching of dirt, but reiterated that perhaps hitting our sister with a "shovel" is not a legitimate solution. At this point I was solemnly informed, "But Mommy, I didn't have anything else to hit her with!"

This afternoon, the girls decided to "make dinner" for the fairies and animals at the lake. This was done on the beach in lieu of swimming today. I believe the menu was soup (sand, pebbles, pine needles, flower blossoms), pebble tea and water. The beverages were served in sand buckets. It took quite a while to set out this lovely menu. I was pleased as: 1. There was little risk I'd have to go in and fish someone out of the water 2. It wasn't a game that involved a "teacher" as most of our games have lately; invariably a student revolt results. I thought the animals and fairies might leave a little thank you note, but it is rather late to be traipsing up and down the stairs, in the dark, at this point ...perhaps an alarm will be set and a note left in the morning.

Monday, June 21, 2010

A Tremendous Success!

Ready for departure. Emily, Theodore in the middle with our "activity bags" and Madeleine just before leaving our driveway in Williamsburg.

First stop for gas (and a snack, and a restroom). Emily, Theodore and Madeleine with the Blue Ridge "Mountains" of Virginia (and our "covered wagon") behind them.

Second state! Rest stop in West Virginia - Emily on the left and Madeleine on the right.

Three states in one day!

11 hours in the car and 1 in the pool - Madeleine (and Theodore) are out!

So are Emily and Pooh Bear!

The most creative billboard award given to Craftsman. The billboard is somewhere in Illinois...

One of two "really nice" rest areas on the trip. This one is circled on my Illinois state map in hopes they have a similar playground on the other side of the interstate. (The other "really nice" rest area was in South Dakota where each of us were given a SD state pin and a coloring book!)

A little wind power pulling across Minnesota.

Emily at the indoor waterpark at Owatonna Minnesota's Holiday Inn.

Madeleine on the water slide.

Rather exhausted after our watersliding and swimming!

The "real" Walnut Grove. The museum there was fine. It would not appeal to older children, but had a ton of hands-on things for the girls to do and the staff could not have been nicer if they had tried.

"Grandma's House" at the Wilder Museum housed most of the hands-on activities. Emily in green and Madeleine in red cooking.

Using real slate pencils on slates.

Emily hanging laundry.

Madeleine mastering the use of a clothespin. She was the "wife" and hung the clothes, while Emily played the music "just like Pa did." Gender roles were reversed, so everyone got a turn with both activities.

Madeleine playing a pump organ

Emily's "turn to be Pa" and play the pump organ.

In the schoolroom.

Ma and the girls, "Just like Laura and Mary."

Playing with our covered wagons from Later Gators in the covered wagon in front of the museum.

Theodore's turn to drive!

From Walnut Grove it was a hop,skip and a jump (or 111 miles) to the Ingalls Homestead in De Smet, South Dakota. This was our second "Laura/Little House" stop of the day. This place was fantastic and I am 90% certain we will make a point of stopping again on our way back to Virginia.

View of the Ingalls' property from the observation tower.

In the recreated homestead house, built according to actual documents and in the exact location of the real house, we got to sit on the beds.....

...practice ironing...

...do laundry....

...put it through the wringer...

...and hang it to dry!

We also got to see a pony and her baby. (Emily in green and Madeleine in red.)

Madeleine riding a pony.

Emily riding a pony.

Emily removing the corn from a dry cob to make corn cob dolls.

Emily driving a covered wagon!

Madeleine's turn to drive and she got to make the horses go fast...as demonstrated by her flying hair.

Madeleine ringing the school bell while wearing a dress and bonnet.

Emily's turn with the bell...she was very excited her dress and bonnet matched.

The Corn Palace in Mitchell, SD...shockingly nothing like Sleeping Beauty's castle!

A close-up of one of the exterior designs.

And, inside!

Emily on the left and Madeleine on the right.

Emily, "Cornelius", Madeleine

A South Dakota dinosaur on the loose!

Emily riding a jackalope at Wall Drug.

Madeleine caught the Wall Drug jackalope too.

Theodore's turn.

Just in case you hadn't noticed...we are very fond of the backdrops you put your faces through for photos. Emily is in the wagon and Madeleine is on the horse.

Emily is in the teepee and Madeleine is holding the baby.

Making progress.......

Madeleine on the left and Emily at the Painted Canyon at the Theodore Roosevelt National Park near Medora, North Dakota.

Theodore was glad to find out there is another "Teddy" of historical significance.

Madeleine and Theodore at the park playground in Medora, N.D.

Emily took Theodore on a wagon ride instead of the train.

We are in Montana and counting down the last three states! ("Home On The Range")

Getting dressed in the last hotel - Billings, Montana.

Our last day with countdown papers!

We made it through the never-ending state of Montana!!!

Madeleine in the home stretch -watching the final movie!

Emily passing the final few hours.

Woo-hoo!!! Yay!!! Yippee!!!

3,019 miles driveway to driveway and we survived the drive across the country. In fact, we did more than survive. The girls and I had a great time. I was amazed at how well they did hour after hour in the car. There was very little bickering and I believe a total of three "Are we there yet?"s - for the whole trip. If I could drive, instead of fly, in the winter, I'd do it in a heartbeat.

I have been given a bit of flack about not posting updates as we went. It is my paranoia. I don't trust public networks (i.e. in hotels) if it is a site where I have to type in a password....hence my "silence".

For anyone contemplating a similar adventure, there were a few products that were worth their weight in gold: 1. Dual-screen portable DVD player (I had balked at this, but found it was worth every overpriced penny) I am convinced pioneer children walked next to the wagon, not only to save wear and tear on the horses, but because the portable DVD player was yet to be invented! 2. Headphones that actually worked. We have never had luck with the portable DVD player entertaining the girls on the plane because the jet noise is too loud...however, I finally broke down and bought better quality kids' headphones (tricky to find) and it seemed to make all the difference. 3. Tray tables that went across the girls' laps/car seat arm rests so they could color, etc. - they could reach these so much better than those on a plane...I'm thinking of dragging them on board for our next flight.

We also read about, and happily used, a trick for those who can not yet tell time. We taped numbered tabs of paper to the back of the driver's and front passenger's seat. For each hour we drove, a tab of paper was removed...nice little countdown. I always added at least two hours to the estimated drive time so we had time for stops, etc....and one day there were a couple of 75 minute "hours", but it really worked well. I knew this was a great trick when the girls got into the van on the first day to face 11 pieces of paper....when paper "6" was removed, Madeleine looked at Emily and said "Look Emily! Only five more hours!!" When your preschooler is excited about "only five more hours", you know you are on to something.

The other trick (of my own compulsive invention) was to map the course using Google and the "add destination" feature. We ended up with a map of the U.S. and each night was labeled as a letter. The girls knew the first day we had to drive to A, the second to B, etc. Each night we would highlight what we had driven that day, so the next morning it was obvious progress was made.....each girl had a map - taped under the hour tabs of paper.

A silver lining to the recession cloud is the lack of roadwork on interstates across the country. Granted, we went through many work zones, but not as many as I thought we would and those that are out there are pretty small. Luckily, many areas seem to do their work at night, so we sailed through, never going slower than 35 mph (and that was rare - usually it was 55). I hope we are as lucky on the way back.

The first day the only thing that gave me pause was realizing we had a red Subaru trailing us with some determination in the Richmond, VA area. I wondered: A. if I had left something at home B. what it could possibly be to have Till jump in the car and follow us for an hour. However, when I slowed a bit, the Subaru - not driven by Till - shot by and we went on our merry way.